Things I Want My Daughters to Know: A Poignant Story of Family Bonds, Grief, and the Enduring Legacy of a Mother's Love

Things I Want My Daughters to Know: A Poignant Story of Family Bonds, Grief, and the Enduring Legacy of a Mother's Love

How do you cope in a world without your mother? When Barbara realizes time is running out, she writes letters to her four daughters, aware that they'll be facing the trials and triumphs of life without her at their side. But how can she leave them when they still have so much growing up to do? Take Lisa, in her midthirties but incapable of making a commitment; or Jennifer, trapped in a stale marriage and buttoned up so tight she could burst. Twentysomething Amanda, the traveler, has always distanced herself from the rest of the family; and then there's Hannah, a teenage girl on the verge of womanhood about to be parted from the mother she adores. But by drawing on the wisdom in Barbara's letters, the girls might just find a way to cope with their loss. And in coming to terms with their bereavement, can they also set themselves free to enjoy their lives with all the passion and love each deserves? This heartfelt novel by bestselling author Elizabeth Noble celebrates family, friends . . . and the glorious, endless possibilities of life. “Noble has a gift for tight plotting and rendering female friendships.” - Entertainment Weekly “Fast paced and funny, this is women’s fiction is worth staying up past your bedtime.” - Library Journal How do you cope in a world without your mother? When Barbara realizes time is running out, she writes letters to her four daughters, aware that they'll be facing the trials and triumphs of life without her at their side. But how can she leave them when they still have so much growing up to do? Take Lisa, in her midthirties but incapable of making a commitment; or Jennifer, trapped in a stale marriage and buttoned up so tight she could burst. Twentysomething Amanda, the traveler, has always distanced herself from the rest of the family; and then there's Hannah, a teenage girl on the verge of womanhood about to be parted from the mother she adores. But by drawing on the wisdom in Barbara's letters, the girls might just find a way to cope with their loss. And in coming to terms with their bereavement, can they also set themselves free to enjoy their lives with all the passion and love each deserves? This heartfelt novel by bestselling author Elizabeth Noble celebrates family, friends . . . and the glorious, endless possibilities of life. Elizabeth Noble is the author of the internationally bestselling novels The Reading Group , The Friendship Test , and Alphabet Weekends . She lives with her husband and their two daughters in New York City. Things I Want My Daughters to Know A Novel By Elizabeth Noble HarperCollins Publishers, Inc. Copyright © 2009 Elizabeth Noble All right reserved. ISBN: 9780061686597 Chapter One June Dear All of You, Despite my controlling streak, there aren't too many rules, so far as the funeral goes. Do it as soon as you can, won't you? Good to get it over with. Lisa knows about the music, if you can bear to go with what I've chosen. We've talked about the committal—you know I only want you lot there, and you know which coffin, and which fabulous outfit. I'd like this poem—which, by the way, I love. Thank God for insomnia and the Internet—I'd never have found it otherwise, and you'd be stuck reading something yucky. It should be read by whoever thinks they can do it without crying, because that is my biggest rule. No crying, please. If you can manage it. Oh, and no black. Wear the brightest thing you can find in your wardrobes. Both are clichés, I know, but better the colorful one than the somber. And try and make the sun shine (although I recognize that this last one might be outside of your control). I'm not saying anything mushy in this letter—strictly business—but I daresay there will be other letters. I have other things to say—she says ominously—if I last long enough to write them?.?.?.?(don't you just love terminal illness humor?). I'm sorry you all have to do this. I really am. So, never-ever­ending love, as always . . . Mum Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there, I do not sleep I am a thousand winds that blow I am the diamond light on snow I am the sunlight on the ripened grain I am the gently falling autumn rain When you wake in the morning hush I am the swift uplighting rush Of quiet birds in circling flight I am the soft starlight at night Do not stand at my grave and cry I am not there, I do not die. (Isn't that perfect for a funeral in a field?!) Continues... Excerpted from Things I Want My Daughters to Know by Elizabeth Noble Copyright © 2009 by Elizabeth Noble. Excerpted by permission. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher. Excerpts are provided by Dial-A-Book Inc. solely for the personal use of visitors to this web site.